If you’ve recently found yourself scrolling through job sites during your lunch breaks, fantasizing about opening a plant shop or wondering if you could just not show up to work tomorrow, and start a new life somewhere sunny… There’s a pretty good chance your career is giving you energy that it’s time to move on.
If taking a personal trainer course online suddenly sounds more appealing than sitting through your team’s seventh meeting this week, your instincts might be trying to gently shove you towards something new. Sitting behind a desk in an office is completely different to moving your body and working out for a living, but the change is what’s important. Changing careers is actually not a meltdown move, it’s a glow up move. And if any of the following signs sound a little bit too familiar, consider this your official nudge towards exploring what’s next.
You’ve started narrating your work day like it’s a nature documentary
You sit at your desk, open your e-mail, and suddenly your inner David Attenborough voice kicks in. If this happens more than once a week, congratulations, you’ve mentally checked out. When your brain starts to entertain itself just to survive the day, it’s not boredom, it’s a cry for help. Your imagination is staging a rebellion, so why don’t you follow it?
Sunday scary’s hit you before the weekend even begins.
This is actually a thing now. The Sunday scaries are normal ish, but when they creep into your Saturday or Friday night or your Friday afternoon, that’s not just stress, that’s your body waving a big red flag shaped like your resignation letter. If your weekend becomes 2 days of emotional buffering before the dread hits again, it’s a sign that your job is draining your soul faster than your morning coffee can revive it.
You keep daydreaming about doing literally anything else.
Some people daydream about European vacations. You daydream about becoming a baker, or walking dogs professionally, or becoming a personal trainer, even though your hamstrings scream during downward dog. Maybe opening a cafe called Grounds for Divorce is your new idea. Or maybe finally going after something meaningful is what’s helping you to move forward. Your brain has already moved on to other possibilities, and it’s giving you gentle, sparkly hints. Maybe listen.
Your motivation has packed its bags and left.
You used to care about your job, you used to show up and you used to give at least 50%. But now every task feels like pushing a boulder up a hill while wearing flip flops. Even simple things feel heroic. You start a task, stare at it, sigh dramatically, and start wondering if you could get away with ghosting your job the way people ghost dates. If it takes caffeine, pep talks and the emotional support of your group chat just to get through the morning, your motivation isn’t on vacation. It’s gone.
You are a master of looking busy without being busy.
You toggle between tabs like a ninja. You’ve perfected that ‘I’m concentrating’ face. You’ve developed complex spreadsheets whose only real function is looking important when your boss walks by. You might even leave a Slack message half typed so it looks like you’re actively working. If you’re putting more energy into appearing engaged and actually being engaged, your career is no longer given what it should be giving.
You are craving growth that your job cannot give you.
You know that itchy, restless feeling, the one that tells you ‘this can’t be it, right?’ Maybe you’ve hit the ceiling. Maybe you’ve hit the walls. Maybe the ceiling and the walls have fused into a career cul-de-sac lined with beige carpet and flickering fluorescent lights. If you want more creativity, challenge, purpose, money, excitement, your desire is valid, and it might even be overdue.
You’ve become weirdly envious of anyone who loves their job.
You know that one friend who practically skips into work? The one who talks about the job with enthusiasm and sparkly eyes? You used to think that they were annoying, and now you’re thinking that you want that too. If hearing somebody talk happily about their job makes your soul wish for the same, then that’s your sign. Not everyone hates Monday. Some people actually enjoy what they do. Wild, but true.
Stress has become your default setting.
There’s productive stress, the kind that motivates you, and then there’s the stress that makes you cry in the shower again. If your job makes your shoulders permanently tense, your brain constantly fried, and your emotional energy consistently low, it’s not just a tough season, it’s a bad fit. Your mental health deserves better in a workplace that’s turning you into an extra. In a workplace tragedy.
You don’t recognize yourself anymore.
Maybe you were once enthusiastic and energetic, but now, after months or years of being stuck, you feel like a watered down version of yourself. You’ve lost your spark, your humour is tired and your hobbies are dusty. Your ambition took a sabbatical and a new career can bring that spark back. Seriously, passion is powerful. It can restore parts of you that you thought you outgrew or misplaced.
You’re curious about new skills or industries.
Maybe you keep Googling new fields, or maybe you’ve been reading articles about other careers. You don’t need to know exactly what you want, yet, you just need to acknowledge that something inside you is reaching for more. Curiosity is one of the biggest signs that you’re ready for change.
Fills empty, repetitive, or disconnected from your values. Your heart is telling you it’s time for something more meaningful. Purpose isn’t a luxury, it’s fuel. So if you’re ready for what’s next, start to listen to the nag, the nudge, the voice. Update your resume and start exploring new possibilities. Try something bold. Choose something that sparks, joy, curiosity, or at least less dread.
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