Social isolation is a growing epidemic particularly in the Veteran Community — one that’s increasingly recognized as having substantial physical, mental and emotional consequences. Since the 1980s, the percentage of American adults who say they’re lonely has doubled from 20 percent to 40 percent and that's not just in the Veteran community. Most of us know what it is like to be … [Read more...]
Top Five Reasons to Attend VetXpo
Folks always ask why I desire to work in the United States Military community, and it's because I truly want to change the world. No, I am not trying to be the next Miss America on this platform, but what I do know is that we are coming into a time where we will have the most service members walking among us civilians. Veterans ranging in ages from the greatest generation of … [Read more...]
Redemption: 14 years and 1 Suicide Attempt Later
From within a luxury seaside villa I swallowed them all. I hit send on my phone and I closed my eyes. After that amount of VA candy, it’s a miracle I am still alive. I often ponder what made me wake up and decide it was all over. Had I decided later in the day, after a few drinks, like most days, I would be dead right now. Alcohol significantly increases the toxicity levels of … [Read more...]
“The Uncounted:” The Tragedy of Suicide in Veteran Families
“To care for him who has borne the battle, and his widow, and his orphan.” – Abraham Lincoln (VA motto) ___________ As Veterans Day approached this year, I wondered not just about the men and women who gave all in the ultimate sacrifice, but about their spouses and families as well. I wondered what happened to them after Taps had played and a folded flag had been held in … [Read more...]
Suicide Must Stop: A Poem of Hope
Suicide Must StopI will be there for you though my weakness is so strongI need you there for me; the battle is not yet wonThe war in my mind tears my heart and soulI fear for myself tomorrow if you give up and let goI will be your comfort; I will be a rockBut I need you standing with meSuicide must stopIf you surrender now take your life and go awayMy burden just gets harder I … [Read more...]